You have two choices:
You are either a victim.
Or
You are the creator of your own reality.
That’s it. There is nothing in-between. No “Well I know I create my results in work because I put in the hours, but in my personal life – whoa – that’s not me – that’s someone else making me miserable”.
Nope.
All you.
You see you can’t be both – you must take responsibility for the results in your whole life, every aspect, every road rage incident, every argument, every bank account balance as well as every wonderful holiday, every bonus, every win.
Yep, all you.
It’s not a new thing to you to hear that ‘Your thoughts create your reality”. Yeah yeah, heard it all before, blah blah, boring.
But this is REAL.
Here’s how it works:
Your mind thinks in pictures.
What car do you have?
See?
Then those thoughts create images in the mind.
And these pictures ALL have a corresponding feeling.
Worst-case scenario picture…. you feel terrible, cue tense shoulders, knot in stomach.
Best-case scenario picture… ahhh blissful emotions, relaxed shoulders, sigh of contentment.
Next is the fact that your mind works like a missile focused on hitting a target. YOU give it a target with your thoughts and feelings.
How do those thoughts and feelings feed the mind to help you hit the target? Any thought filled with emotion becomes intensified, and it starts a stream of other thoughts along the same lines. This leads you to take certain action (or in many cases, stops you taking action you want to take). Because all our decisions are made with our emotions (nope, sorry intellectual and educated mind – you can’t take credit for decision-making).
All these decisions are taking you towards the target – step by step – towards the target you gave it – most of the time without even realising you were doing it.
So can you see what target you are giving it if you are constantly self-indulging in negative thinking.
And it is self-indulgent. Negative thinking – in some perverse way, makes us feel kind of good in a miserable kind of a way. If you can get your head round that oxymoron you’ll know what I mean.
What target do you really want your mind to help you achieve?
Then feed it those thoughts, so it creates those images, so that they generate those emotions, so that you make the decisions that will take you to your dream life.
Then you can shed any victim identity and step into the true reality creator that you are.
Trust me – I’ve been doing this for a LONG time – I promise you, it works.
Effortlessly,
Guinevere.